Forward

Some of us, as leaders, go through a series of purpose-expressions, a series of careers, as we grow, learn and become more and more of who we are meant  to be.  Others find one avenue immediately after high school or college and stay with that one expression of their vision throughout much of their life. Whichever path you follow is yours, not right or wrong, just yours..

The one core truth we learn, however, is that whatever path we choose, there will be a continuous series of opportunities for growth or stagnation. For living our truth or being in self-betrayal. Choosing leadership, consciously or otherwise, requires that we be ready to grow in order to deal with all the challenges, opportunities, and expansions that happen as our vision takes on a life of its own. That choosing can support compassion, understanding, and a greater leadership skill as those around us go through their process as well.

As leaders, we are challenged at times to decide if we are ready or even want to grow to that next level, to lead at that level, to become even more of who we are.

If you are human, you will at times want to stop, to breath, to reconsider your choices. That is never a failing, or a weakness, rather it is an amazing gift you give yourself. When you have grown significantly, or when it is time to grow significantly,  stopping to catch up with yourself, to integrate all that is happening, is a smart and solid way of strengthening your foundation, your connection to your Spirit,  to your purpose, and to you.

Use these articles as a means to do that.

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The Vacations That Changed My View Of America

By Mindfulness

It takes three days to truly arrive—and only one to start forgetting again. Living on the Caribbean Island of Anguilla, BWI, for ten years, I witnessed something profound and totally unexpected. As an American, I was conditioned to think of the one-week vacation as a global norm. How incorrect I was… I came to see that Americans would fly in…

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The Leadership Chapter You Didn’t See Coming

By Transition

“The moment of surrender is not when life is over. It’s when it begins.” — Marianne Williamson The above is a quote I totally resonate with. Years ago, I realized I could get caught up in pushing my agenda through. In convincing myself, that if I only worked hard enough, long enough, pushed forward enough, things would all work out….

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Time Compression: The Truth About Great Coaches

By Coaching

A great coach doesn’t just guide you—they fast-track your evolution. In a conversation this week about coaching, who and how it serves, there were some interesting points debated. One train of thought is that coaches never offer advice or direction, they simply ask probing questions allowing the client to figure things out for themselves. Another perspective is that coaches use…

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What Are You Really Investing In?

By Energy

I was recently in a conversation with someone and began talking about what it means to be an investor. With my mind going straight to financials, stocks, bonds, real estate, etc., she shifted it immediately to a lifetime of investing in people, in causes, and my businesses. It became so clear how conditioned we can become with words and the…

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You Weren’t Meant To Just Make A Living

By Transition

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it.”  ~Howard Thurman How often have you felt that you’ve proven yourself. You’ve built, led, achieved. Many times. Nonetheless, beneath the surface, you know something isn’t sitting right. It’s not that you hated what you’ve been doing, only that something is missing, or not quite…

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Forging Ahead By Taking A Step Back

By Transition

This is the title of my latest book. Last week I wrote about leading our lives into this next stage of the journey. Whether they are 40, 60, or 80, I have folks talking to me about creating their legacy and about the things that are changing in their lives. They are realizing that we can only use so many…

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Transitioning To Your Next Stage Of The Journey

By Transition

There comes a moment in our career/life when success is not the major goal. That’s either because we have reached or surpassed what we had dreamed of, or because we realize our values have changed. I, personally, have noticed a shift into Legacy Leadership. My past few clients have done the same. Impact versus an image of personal success became…

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Our Second Act: Time to Redefine Fulfillment in Leadership

By Leadership

The second act of leadership isn’t about climbing higher—it’s about going deeper. Once you’ve achieved that position of being your own boss, or of being at the level you had once dreamed of, you then need to look at it all and recognize there must be more. There must be something with far more meaning. Frequently, those in leadership face:                                                                                 …

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