Our values permeate everything we do, and everything we are.

No matter what we do in life, there is always someone who will know more or will know different aspects of what we do. What makes us special, and/or makes people want to work with us, is who we are and what values we emanate from every pore of our being. 

Unfortunately, in the days of Covid I have clients who feel so limited because of constraints placed on us and who are very frustrated by the variety of mixed messages we are hearing. This all forces each one of us to know our individual values in this and if they relate to how we are doing our business.

I truly believe that when we are clear on what we believe, when we can, without apology, stand by those beliefs, everyone we work with will be more comfortable. 

Some groups are gathering but you must be doubly vaccinated to attend the meetings. Other groups allow everyone and those who want to wear masks can and those who don’t, don’t need to.  If those guidelines don’t make you happy, either attend virtually or choose to take a leave of absence. Whatever supports you in living your truth will support everyone feeling far more comfortable.

From the beginning, some have said that Covid was a total curse. Others have said they would never have chosen it but it gave them time at home which, after a period of adjustment, they came to cherish. Now that it is dragging on, we are being reminded that some decisions need to be made more than once. So, is it going to be a curse or an opportunity for growth, personally and professionally for you as we enter another fall and winter?

Yes, our values are being tested over a far longer period than we have hoped.

Have yours changed? Are they the same as they were? Do you know what yours are? As colder weather starts will you be eating outside around heaters? Will you be going to local restaurants? Will you meet with clients? Employees? I know mine. Sticking with them isn’t always easy when people close to me have other ideas and wants yet going against my truth feels awful. I choose my truth.

 Remember, when you are going against what you believe, or frightened of defining what you believe because it means you will be forced to make a choice, living in self-betrayal always has a cost and frequently it is far greater than you imagined. Others sense it and feel uncomfortable around you even if they don’t know why. Know who you are. Respect your values and live accordingly.  You and all those around you will have far more peace and a far happier and more productive time, whether in person or on Zoom. Inner peace is what creates health on all levels, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and energetically.

Dorothy

About Dorothy

Dr. Dorothy’s life story of coming from an orphanage, being raised in the housing projects of South Boston, becoming a Catholic nun, an international airline stewardess, a wife, mother, graduate faculty member, Clinical Instructor at a Medical School, and so much more provides the perfect backdrop for her message of joy, humor, passion and faith as the necessary tools for life.